How to behave yourself during a body to body massage? 6 tips to make the most of your experience
Let’s presume you’ve made an appointment to get a body to body massage at one of the parlours that provide it – a wise decision, that much is sure! Still, there are ways in which you personally may mess up your session big time – mostly by behaving inappropriately or neglecting basic courtesy. While we don’t believe you particularly prone to faux-pas, it’s nevertheless useful to sum up some basic rules on what to avoid when having your nuru fun. We will go through:
- Not being late
- The need to relax
- Communication during the session
- Courtesy towards your therapist
- The need to switch off
The golden rule for your body to body massage is: Don’t be late!
It should go without saying that being on time is basic courtesy – what’s more, it’s one of the keys to success. By being on time, you demonstrate consideration for others and good manners, and it can and will pay off in the way people treat you. Especially in the context of a massage – if you make a good impression on your masseuse, the quality of your treatment may noticeably improve as opposed to when you leave her waiting for half an hour. Of course, unexpected circumstances may prevent you from being on time, in which case you should let your therapist or the parlour manager know by phone that you’ll be late.
Try to relax and not be nervous
We know – the whole thing can seem a little bit intimidating if you’ve never done it before. A naked, body to body massage with a woman you’ve never met? Nevertheless, try not to be nervous – you’ll be in a friendly environment and the procedure itself will be extremely exciting and pleasurable. There’s no real need to be scared, but if you are, there are many ways to relax at any given moment. Look up and try some of them. Also, chat up your masseuse – have a small talk to break the ice and see that she’s just a normal girl. Compliment her, be courteous, and everything will work out just fine.
Give feedback, but don’t try to school her how to do her job
As you’re having your massage, don’t hesitate to voice what feels good and what doesn’t. You’re the customer here, after all. Tell your therapist which areas would you prefer her to focus on, and which areas would you prefer to be left out. However, avoid trying to teach her how to massage them or scolding her for doing it “wrong”. Chances are, she knows better than you what works and what doesn’t and being rude to her will most certainly ruin the experience for both of you.
Don’t treat your therapist like a prostitute
Even though you’ve signed up for an erotic massage with a happy ending, you can’t expect the same services as in a brothel – keep this in mind! Your masseuse is a trained therapist, not a prostitute, and all the techniques she employs are non-penetrative. Neither direct or oral sex is part of the nuru massage and suggesting otherwise or asking for it will probably insult your masseuse and won’t do any favours. Also, touching her inappropriately is out of the question unless agreed to before!
Allow yourself to switch off
Turn off your phone. This time should be allotted to you and you only. All other matters can wait a bit. Don’t put your mind to work or any problems ahead of you. Stay in the moment.
Tipping is optional, but can be nice way of showing gratitude
Of course, you’re not at a restaurant and you’ve paid the full price in advance. But if you’ve really enjoyed yourselves, leave a tip to show some extra appreciation. Also, if you’ve been late and the session had to be prolonged, leaving a tip may be a nice way to make up for it.
These were the 6 tips to make your nuru experience more enjoyable. We hope you’ve found them useful and will make a good use them if you opt for a nuru massage in the future!
Can you think of more things to avoid while getting your nuru rubdown? Which of those mentioned above do you think are the most important? And why? What’s your stance on tipping? Discuss in the comments below!